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ENJOYING NOT ENDURING MARRIAGE

4 years ago on the 18th of Sept, I married my best friend.. and it has been an amazing ride.. There have been many highs as well as lows I remember our wedding day like it was yesterday I danced my heart out..it was indeed a joyful celebration of love neither of us knew what lied ahead but we were certain that we loved ourselves enough to venture into the future. I remember being single and saying to my girl friends that I would enjoy my marriage rather than endure it. I had a picture of what my marriage should look like. The more I mature in love the more I realise that enjoying marriage every day and through every season is no walk in the park It takes a conscious effort,a lot of hard work and the fruit of the holy spirit. It is so easy for the excitement and enjoyment to die,we begin to endure each other as we do life together. I have also come to understand very strongly that the devil is after marriages So I need to consciously fight for my marriage,